Girls Are The Best

Welcome

GirlsAreTheBest is a legal, secure and welcoming space for individuals interested in girl love to connect, express themselves, and learn. Through our message board and chat room, we foster open discussions on thoughts, feelings, and experiences related to girl love.

What is girl love?

Girl love is many things at once. It's friendship, tenderness, affection, admiration, and desire, woven together into something larger than any single part. The erotic element distinguishes it from other kinds of love, yet it is never only that. At its heart lies a deep appreciation for both body and mind, for girls' personality, humor, and habits.

To love girls is to want to see them happy, to understand them more fully, to show warmth without shame, and to feel a wish to belong in their world. It's a kind of love that calls for respect, an awareness that girls deserve care, safety, and dignity.

A girl lover is someone who experiences all of these forms of love as an interconnected whole. It isn't defined by a single impulse or moment of attraction, but by the coexistence of affection, longing, admiration, and emotional connection.

To be a girl lover is also to acknowledge this truth rather than to deny it, to accept one's feelings without turning them into something exploitative or shameful. Those who feel only physical desire, without romantic or emotional depth, fall outside this understanding. A genuine girl lover recognizes the full humanity of girls and seeks to honor it.

Why spaces for girl love matter

For many of us, girl love is a central part of who we are. Yet the world leaves little room for us to speak about it. Most online platforms treat any mention of it as dangerous or immoral, erasing the possibility of honest conversation. In that silence, people can feel isolated, fearful, or convinced that their existence is itself unacceptable.

A dedicated space allows us to breathe. It gives us somewhere to share our experiences openly, to exchange advice about staying safe, to help one another navigate complicated feelings, and to find friendship with those who understand. Within that safety, we can also offer support to members who struggle with depression, guilt, or loneliness, and help prevent despair from turning into self-destructive choices.

These spaces remind us that we are not alone and that our capacity for love does not make us monsters. Here, we can show that we are capable of kindness, restraint, and empathy; that we can live decently and responsibly in a world that often assumes otherwise.

Rules

1. We do not tolerate any form of disrespect, harassment, or other mistreatment of girls, on-site or off.
2. No sexual content, nudity, or highly suggestive media of any form are permitted.
3. All users must be at least 18 years old.
4. All content shared or referenced must be unambiguously legal in the United States.
5. Soliciting off-site contact from strangers or for illicit purposes is not permitted.
6. You may not admit to, allude to, solicit, encourage, or accuse other members of any acts that are illegal in the United States.
7. All communication on-site must be plain text English and is subject to moderator review. All rules always apply.
8. Links to unmoderated/anonymous upload sites, imageboards, or anything similar are not allowed.

Guidelines

These are not rules per se, but consistent or egregious violation of them may result in moderator intervention.

• When disagreeing, please reply to the argument instead of calling names.
• Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize. Assume good faith.
• Please do not share anything from a private thread or chat with people who did not have access when it was shared.
• Treat other members with kindness and respect, even if you don't like them personally.
• Be respectful of differing opinions. Please do not feign surprise that anybody could possibly disagree with you, or imply that anyone who disagrees with you is inferior.
• To demonstrate that you have read this page, when posting an introduction, please mention something you like about one of the example intros.
• Do not attempt to circumvent moderators or moderation policies.
• Do not upload or link to anything associated with illegal or questionable content.
• Oversharing personal or identifying information is discouraged, and staff may remove it unless explicitly requested not to.
• Staff has the final say when enforcing the rules. This document cannot possibly capture every edge case and nuance. Above all else, staff are tasked with keeping the community safe and its members safe. They are not required and should not be expected to justify every decision to your personal satisfaction.

FAQ

• Is it safe to use this site?

  This site is heavily moderated and staff do everything possible to ensure a safe, legal experience. If you are worried about your privacy, we have designed everything here to work in Tor Browser with JavaScript disabled.

• What counts as nudity?

  "Nudity" means any partially or completely visible nipples or genitals, male or female. Incidental topless males in public settings where topless males are normal and expected (e.g., beaches) may occasionally be permitted at staff's discretion. Deliberate attempts to test the precise boundaries of this rule will be removed. Staff has the final word what is acceptable.

• Are non-GLers welcome?

  Anybody who engages respectfully is welcome to join and participate regardless of sexual orientation or opinions.

• Can I share my email address or other contact info with another member?

  If you get to know someone on-site, you are welcome and encouraged to privately share off-site contact info. However, trying to connect off-site with random strangers or for illicit purposes is against rule 5 and you will be banned.

• Can I talk about my criminal record?

  Exceptions may be made to rule 6 for crimes that have already been tried in court, as long as you provide a clear, explicit disclaimer every time you mention such crimes.

• Can I provide a search hint for something that is against the rules to link directly?

  No. Mentioning the name or title of something relevant to a conversation is allowed, but any instruction on how to find something will be treated exactly the same as a direct link.