Rules

1. We do not tolerate any form of disrespect, harassment, or other mistreatment of girls, on-site or off.
2. No sexually explicit material, nudity, or highly suggestive media of any form are permitted.
3. All users must be at least 18 years old.
4. All content shared or referenced must be unambiguously legal in the United States.
5. Soliciting off-site contact from strangers, or from anyone for illicit/rule-breaking purposes, is not permitted.
6. You may not admit to, allude to, solicit, encourage, or accuse other members of any acts that are illegal in the United States.
7. All communication on-site must be plain text English and is subject to staff review. All rules always apply.
8. Links to unmoderated/anonymous upload sites, imageboards, or anything similar are not allowed.

Guidelines

These are not rules per se, but consistent or egregious violation of them may be punished as a rule violation.

1. When disagreeing, please reply to the argument instead of calling names.
2. Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize. Assume good faith.
3. Treat other members with kindness and respect, even if you don't like them personally.
4. Be respectful of differing opinions. Please do not feign surprise that anybody could possibly disagree with you, or imply that anyone who disagrees with you is inferior.
5. Do not upload or link to anything associated with illegal or questionable content.
6. Do not celebrate violence, call for retribution, dehumanize others, or target individuals or groups. "Target" means directing hostility toward people based on identity, nationality, or other attributes, rather than discussing ideas or behaviors.
7. Nobody is required to continue any debate, respond to any message, or participate in any discussion, not even staff. Respect their decision and move on.
8. Oversharing personal or identifying information is discouraged, and staff may remove it unless explicitly requested not to.
9. Please do not share anything from a private thread or chat with people who did not have access when it was shared.
10. The rules and staff decisions about how to enforce them are final and not up for debate. This document cannot possibly capture every edge case and nuance. Above all else, staff are tasked with keeping the community healthy and its members safe from harm. They are not required and should not be expected to justify every decision to your personal satisfaction.
11. Level-headed discussion about the rules that is not a reaction to a specific event is welcome, but questions or feedback about specific moderation decisions must be done with the 'Report' function on the forum on any post. Public outbursts will be removed and may result in a temporary ban. Responding to moderation with hostility or harassment will result in a ban.

FAQ

1. Is it safe to use this site?

   This site is heavily moderated and staff do everything possible to ensure a safe, legal experience. If you are worried about your privacy, we have designed everything here to work in Tor Browser with JavaScript disabled.

2. What counts as sexually explicit material?

   This includes erotic or pornographic text, chat, and roleplay - not just images and video. Discussion about sexual topics is welcome when approached in a non-erotic manner. If it seems like it belongs on a porn site, it doesn't belong here.

3. What counts as nudity?

   "Nudity" means any partially or completely visible nipples or genitals, male or female. Incidental topless males in public settings where topless males are normal and expected (e.g., beaches) may occasionally be permitted at staff's discretion. Deliberate attempts to test the precise boundaries of the rules will be removed. Staff has the final word what is acceptable.

4. Are non-GLers welcome?

   Anybody who engages respectfully is welcome to join and participate regardless of sexual orientation or opinions.

5. Can I share my email address or other contact info with another member?

   If you get to know someone on-site, you are welcome and encouraged to privately share off-site contact info. However, trying to connect off-site with random strangers, or with anyone for illicit/rule-breaking purposes, is against rule 5 and you will be banned.

   This includes mentioning to someone that you have messaged them off-site to break the rules. What you do in private is your business - sharing it here is making it ours. If it is against the rules, you will be banned.

6. Can I talk about my criminal record?

   Exceptions may be made to rule 6 for crimes that have already been tried in court, as long as you provide a clear, explicit disclaimer every time you mention such crimes.

7. Can I provide a search hint for something that is against the rules to link directly?

   No. Mentioning the name or title of something relevant to a conversation is allowed, but any instruction on how to find something will be treated exactly the same as a direct link.

8. Where can I find helpful links and resources?

   Check out our Links page for a curated collection of external resources.